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Hi! My friend is always really mean to me! I don’t know why! Sometimes she’s nice but when you try to reason or argue with her she gets all defensive! And when she makes fun of you and you try to make her stop she gets all defensive again!  She lies about everything and can’t admit that she’s wrong. She is a really good friend when she’s nice but she’s a super bully when she’s mad! What’ll I do if I want to get her out of my life and at the same time stay with her?

Answer: You can limit your time you want to spend with her. So choose how much you want to hang out, then focus on other friends who aren’t mean!

My mom just died of breast cancer and in January my brother died in a car accident with a drunk driver.  Im not even drying right now and i just found out my mom died. Has anyone ever experienced a parent dying?

Answer: Yes and it hurts! It will take time to heal the hurt. Try to think of the good times with your mom and brother. I just heard this about a famous man who just died…don’t think of what might have been in the future, but focus on what you had with your mom and brother. Big hugs and prayers for you!

All my friends have had at least 1 boy friend and I have had none. Y can I not get a boyfriend???

Answer: Just because your friends have bf’s doesn’t mean you need one. You will have one soon enough and then some! Hang in there and don’t settle on just anyone!

I have a problem with my boyfriend. He is really cool and all but he is mean 2 people but not me and he has a bad temper which I can’t control. I can’t joke anyhow with him like say are u silly when I am jokin. He will take it serious and quarrell with me badly but he takes the jokes from everyone else except me. why? help.

Answer: Sounds like you bf is controlling. Be careful with him especially if he has a bad temper. You should not be fighting with you bf, but having fun. If it’s not fun, lose him. There are a lot of guys out there that are nice guys who would laugh at your jokes.

I have dis girl she’s actually not my bestfriend she’s only my closest friend… I told her my secret..  And few days passed, the secret was already known with my other classmate!!!  OMG!! What will I do with my closest friend?? , will I still chat with her online, talk to her on the telephone, talk to her in person etc.???  pls help me.

Answer: You can still be close friends, just don’t tell her anything that you don’t want out!

I like my sister’s boyfriend, but she will get mad at me if I tell her. What should I do?

Answer: Not a good idea to go there!

I really like the school that i am going to right now but my friends are being kinda mean to me. They are not really hanging out with me and saying stuff about the other friends that I have. I am going to a christian school right now and love it. But the problem is that my friends are being mean and that my sister is going to college, and it cost a lot so it is hard for us to afford both my school and my sister’s college. But my mom thinks i should stay at my school cause it is a Christian school and the other school isnt. Please tell me which one i should go to.

Answer: First, if your friends are mean try to find out why? If they continue to be mean, then find friends who aren’t. There are a lot of girls out there that would love to be your new friend! Second, trust your parent’s decision in the schools. Christian schools are great and there might be a time when you want to attend public schools, but until then, go with what your parents can afford and want to do for you. But if you do go to a public school-hang onto what you’ve already learned!

I am 16 years old I weigh 140 and I am 5′4 is that normal? Whenever I look at myself I feel so bad and I am depressed and I told my parents about it, but they don’t do anything or say that will help. They just watch everything I put in my mouth, I need help how can I lose at least 30 pounds? I need help. please answer.

Answer: First of all, you are not over weight. As stated earlier, the average woman is 5′4 and weighs 130 pounds. So what now. Start eating healthy, get at least 8 hours of sleep a night and exercise daily. Don’t skip meals. You don’t need to lose 30 pounds. When I say exercise daily, that means do something for at least 30 minutes a day. You can walk, jog, swim, play tennis…anything to get up and get moving. And quit looking at the mags! You’ll look at yourself differently and like who you are. Start there. If you’re still depressed, tell your parents again you need help.